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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 27.06.2025 10:47

How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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What I need from you?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Ask yourself:

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

That's it for today.

Why can't my adopted sister accept she is not part of my family because she isn't related? Why can't she stop calling my parents mum and dad?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Does not procrastinate.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.